Another term used is simply "provider."
The term is not sex-specific; it applies to both sexes.
Ethan: I know dude!! I can't wait for their new album to be released!!
Sky: I'm gonna pick up a copy when I see them this week at Mayhem fest!!
Best used in text form in place of A.S.A.P. (As Soon As Possible) when you want a person to think you're rushing to do something or be somewhere and actually it isn't really a priority.
The fact that it may be misheard/read as A.S.A.P. leads to the acronym being useful for setting up an excuse for lateness.
Yeah, sure, I'll be there A.S.P.
OK then. (Ah, he must mean A.S.A.P.)