a group of low life wigga's-who wish they lived in the city- but they live in Miller Place Long Island- and get this....
their all WHITE....
A.B.M. stands for "All but married." Similar to A.B.E., A.B.M. may denote that a couple is engaged, but not yet married. In particular, it may denote a rather long engagement period, but not always. See example (1)
Other times, it may be used as a loose synonym for A.B.E. and may or may not denote behavior between a couple that is more serious than expected at an early stage of dating. See example (2)
Similar to the academic lingo, A.B.D., All but dissertation.
Ellie and Stew are A.B.M.; they've been engaged for three years!
Jay: Zack is A.B.M.
Frank: Yeah, I hardly ever see him anymore since he started dating Kim.