1) A woman (also affectionately called a bitch) who challenges the virility and dominance of a man by utilizing verbal abuse and/or by controlling social situations usually controlled by the men.

2) A woman who is so bitchin' and intelligent that most men fear openning their mouth in her presence, much less making a sexual advance.
"That ball buster of a ho didn't let me have a word in edgewise. She tore my ass up one side, and down the other"

"Woo Wee! Look at that ball bustin' honey!"
by Mike November 22, 2003
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A generally derogatory phrase applied to a woman who habitually interacts with men in an overly defensive way via verbal insult, superior attitude, and/or avoidance of "conventional" gender roles possibly (make that probably)due to an underlying fear of being taken advantage of or undervalued (ie; not being taken seriously in an age where both genders compete for the same jobs and the like). The behavior is generally unintentionally hurtful and hypocritical.
I wanted to ask her out, but she changed the subject to business just to prove how much more money she makes. Then I tried to open the door for her, but she rushed to grab the handle first and then let the door shut in my face. Geez, she's such a ball buster.
by Rachel821 September 7, 2007
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to jokingly annoy one's friend(s) by throwing insults or jibes meant to slightly annoy
after i fell on my ass and had to wear a butt-donut, my friend became an instant ball buster.
by matt c November 13, 2003
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an individual who instigates, jokes with or tests, someone to make a situation more problematic than what it shopuld be
The only thing I did was hug an old friend in the club and now my wifes being a real ball buster about it.
by ohhhcedric July 30, 2003
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A woman who kicks, stamps, punches, etc... a guys nuts.
His legs open wide, she booted him in the balls and then laughed at his pain.
by SQ May 7, 2005
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when job or project is very hard it's a ball buster
erecting that fence was a ball buster
by t-bone July 5, 2003
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one who busts balls one who is controlling. one who makes fun of my flaccid penis. I take Viagra
My bitchy wife is a real ball buster
by Jay Dangle November 30, 2004
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