"If a man comes upon a maiden that is not betrothed, takes her and has relations with her, and their deed is discovered, the man who had relations with her shall pay the girls father fifty silver shekels and take her as his wife, because he has deflowered her. Moreover, he may not divorce her as long as he lives." (Deut 22:28,29)
Doug: Jack, you totally deflowered Sally last night, SCORE!
Brenda: No you didn't, Jack. She jumped your bones and was begging and begging for it. That's an entirely different Torah Marriage Law. Read up!
Jack: Hmm...I believe in Jesus, now. He who has not sinned, cast the first stone!
Brenda: Just know that it's not a particularly nice thing to "deflower" somebody. Jesus died for all transgressions, but mercy and wrath are both with him. Be cautious, Dude. Girls are being pressured to dress slutty because of the culture, some don't get that they are frustrating you, or that it's a painful tease. They might not be taught any other ways that lead to marriage. Tell them to cover up if you have to...or tell them what they ACTUALLY have to do to get you to L-O-V-E them, rather than testing naivety with seduction. It's sure they'll want to know what will REALLY keep you...<3.