Should I consider counseling to try to tame my personality? Should I just be myself and continue being lonely and misunderstood?
—Wild Horses Drag Me Away
You don't give me much to go on, WHDMA. It would help to know, for example, what exactly you're doing—besides being all intensely romantic and extremely idealistic and physically fit and stuff—that scares women off. How does your "intensity" manifest itself? Without that info, it's difficult to whip up some advice for you.