Most goths I know do not dress to shock people as most seem to think, but simply because that is what they want to wear. I will also add that most 'GOTHS' dont actaly like nu metal.
Cyber goth= bright clothes, indutrial/ebm/techno music.
Goth= black/perple clothes and spikes,music as cyber also darkwave/old 80s goth music.
Mosher (not goth) Nu metal, punk