a person who is so gay that you can take a glimpse and you know that there gay, im not talkin like a guy wearing a pink shirt so you just assume, im talkin bout that has-to-be-perfect streaked hair, the fuzz on the face, the tight pants, lots of gay colors, maybe being seen with a guy, the gay smile expression on their face, the whole nine yards. not that im saying if you have some of these things that your gay, but this person is such a flamer, that their either a fag, or gay,...or both... the term flamin can also be used towards someone who looks gay but isn't...meaning that there flaming. Its over all a person who is flaming with gayness and homosexuality
"OMG, gee there buddy you wouldnt want your nuts to breathe with those tight pants....flamer"
"Man why do you like that guy he's such a flamer"
"Oh my, that buddy got some tight ass pants, fuck he's flaming"
"cock suckin flamer"