A mutual, unmistakable and unconditional selfless devotion of mind, heart and body for a significant other regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, religion etc. Having no doubt that the person you've chosen or are thinking of choosing, will always be there for you, as you are for them regardless of who, what and how you are, through thick and thin and without a second thought. Even after a long time or distance apart, even after many hurtful breakups and countless arguments, true love can still endure as long as it is quickly revived, recognized and reinforced. True love coincides with pain and struggles, natural human weakness. Humans are imperfect and so is true love. One must embrace and accept pain and its imperfections if they are to survive true love in life. If one does not experience pain, they are not in real love, only an illusion of it. True love is trying to find out what to write as a definition of "true love" for urban dictionary.com while thinking of your significant other as an example. It is stumbling on your own words as you speak and having writers block as you write. True love is honestly loving yourself first before unconditionally loving someone else.. if you don't love yourself, you will never truly love someone else. True love can not be taught by those around you, you can only try to discover it for yourself and if you are fortunate enough to find it, hold on to it as long as you can, for it may be your life's eternal salvation or your ultimate demise.
"They continue to think and dream of each other as if they were still together, even after a year apart. It is because their true love has never left them."