a woman who can accomplish all tasks while remaining beautiful; a good looking woman in an authoritative position in a business (non-sexual); a woman who is successful without the aid of others (although others may help to make things more convenient).
"Mary is such a Bosslady. She's the kind of girl all guys want to have and all girls want to be."
"Damn, I'm against the Bosslady in my DECA competition. I don't stand a chance."
"Don't worry, everything's under control. She's the Bosslady."
"I'm in love with the Bosslady."
guy 1: "I'm dating the Bosslady"
friends: "Damn I wish I could be dating her. I've always wanted to date the Bosslady"