don't dislike someone for their actions, consider instead the situation that causes it.
first use: Ice T: "Hate the Playa"
origin: (?) Ghandi Quote: "Hate the sin and love the sinner."
another use of Don't Hate The Playa/Playette Hate The Game, from Ice T's "Hate the Playa"
"I don't know why a player wanna hate T
I didn't choose the game, the game chose me"