Someone who thinks they are cool, but they really are not. A flamer is someone who tries to show off for everything and tries to befriend all the black people because they're all his "homies". Someone who things that they live in the hood, when it's actually a rich white neighborhood. A flamer usually tries to get fake things. For example, walmart clothing or shoes, fake brand names. A flamer is usually a homosexual male. Flamers are usually very arrogant and think that they are good at everything. Sometimes they can simply be called "flames". Flamers usually like to use ghetto language like "dawg". They have little self respect.