a word used to describe a man that you would think would be gay but it not.
as opposed to a rugged man, a flimy man is genuienly soft spoken, soft hands, and has feminen tendensys. normaly one's gaydar would be going off but they are not gay.
Basicly a man that does not fit the steriotipical manly man.
"Dude that guy is such a homo."
"you know he has a wife and kids right?"
"oh. so he is just flimsy."