A BIG! italian smack the shit outta you family member who takes care of business for that family. These arrogant bastards can usually be found crusin' the streets of Staten Island in SUVs wearing their NorthFaces.
Also the only weight that can be benched by a Staten Island family man. No more, no less.
Carl: Yo, John my man. Hows it goin?
John: Eh, nothin much, just benchin the Big 145.