means "everyday struggle" I lived in a neighborHOOD that had nothing but STRUGGLE(Ache/Pain)Thats why I actually came up with the word in 1997 or 1998 or so.
Coming back to your car after running into a store and finding a $115 parking ticket is a Hoodache.
I made a clothing line with this name about the same time I came up with the name.There are alot of people using the word but they can't say that they started using it until after 2000.I have the proof!!!The real HOODACHE!!!!