To kill time by talking with a friend or doing stupid shit, generally involves drinking copious ammounts of alchohol, however can be completed while sober.
Any converstaion made whilst Kicking the Shit is not a D'n'M, but is above a conversation.
Seb: Oi rhye, come over to mine, let's kick the shit for a while.
Rhye: Aight mate, i'll be there in a half hour, you got some booze?
Seb: Yeah mate, you betcha.