Like 'A VERY SMART PERSON' stated back in 2003, "ghey" is a different spelling of "gay" that idiots thought up and pretend that it's less derogatory when in fact, they are WRONG. Changing the spelling of a slur does NOT make it any less offensive!
You created "ghey" because it came from homophobic views of "gay" and now you're trying to say the words don't relate?
So if we now say "nigger" as "nehgger" does that make it okay? How about "ur fuckn STRAIGHT" oh I meant to say "STREIGHT"