A male who typically prefers female company to that of his own male friends. He finds women more preferential due to their fundamental interest in feelings and superficial gossip.
Talk of football, politics and glorifying the female body are of little entertainment to a Bocat.
Simon: Is Adam coming to the pub to watch the football?
David: No, he's being a fucking bocat and seeing Emma.
Peter: Are you going to walk with us lot?
Paul: Nah, I think I'm going to hang back and talk to Selina
Peter: You fucking bocat...