The act of exploring away from the social norm. Ie, a guy watching Sex and the City, and a girl actually enjoying porn. etc,.
(20:37:35) Johnathan: well
(20:37:54) Johnathan: im gonna go buy some erotica books... just to understand the 'female' viewpoint
(20:38:01) Johnathan: oh
(20:38:07) Johnathan: i dont maean like playboy
(20:38:13) Johnathan: i mean, like sleezy smut books
(20:38:21) Johnathan: with story lines and plots
(20:38:25) Johnathan: and characters
(20:39:02) Jennifer: does that mean ur leafing?