the Carebear" is to trap and ensnare
those whom you know
have "a thing" for you or "are in like" with you. They keep
them on the hook for their own selfish reasons, usually for financial, emotional or self-esteem related fulfillment.
The key fact here is that the feelings of the "Carebear" are not reciprocated
by the one "Ensnaring the Carebear" - they
don't like the Carebear but are just leading them on. One who "Ensnares the Carebears" is a Carebear Ensnarer, oft confused
with the much similar Jay Amatya
, well they
are pretty much the same.
A girl one-way webcams
(she has a webcam he doesn't) with said guy everyday and does absurd
as.. say.. eating pretzels seductively. She obviously has some kind of attraction to him whereas he doesn't yet just lets
simply because this boosts his ego.
This is only one simple example on how many horrible human beings out there "Ensnare the Carebear" =O