DO NOT EVER PLAY. IT WILL SWALLOW UP YOUR LIFE.
This website was the reason my boyfriend and I broke up. He was flirting with too many girls on there whom he didn't even know, and when I asked him to stop, he decided we should break-up if I couldn't deal with that.
DON'T EVER PLAY THIS GAME IF YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU. It is pointless and addicting.
Anything, and I mean anything, that you could possibly gain from this game you could also gain in real life with a million times more meaning.
I mean, seriously...if I were my ex-boyfriend, I'd much rather have a real life girlfriend to talk to, hang out with, and kiss, rather than a group of pixelated harpies to post, "heyyy babii, wats up, i miss u! *kisses* ;-D"
But that's just me, I suppose.