Discreet is a term used by gay men in online profiles, usually along with the phrase "can't host
." These words can often be used interchangeably, but using them together is a definite sign of an insecure douche. Discreet and "can't host
" usually mean one of the following:
a). My boyfriend doesn't know I am cheating on him.
b). My girlfriend/wife doesn't know I like to have sex with men.
c). I'm embarrassed of who I am, and I don't want my neighbors to find out I'm gay.
"Looking for NSA
fun. Discreet only. Can't host
"We can meet for sex, but you have to be discreet. If you see me in public, walk on the other side of the street."
"I'm a very private person, so when we meet for sex we have to be discreet. You'll have to sneak in through the basement at 4PM and leave before 5PM."