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1 definition by Harley, Lights & Styles

 
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Pronounced Deffy

When a girl reaches down your pants and grabs hold of your member, and instead of jerking or tugging, she simply holds it.
"Ahh excuse me bitch are you just going to give me a deffy, or are you going to do something with it?"

"fuck dude, all I got was a defy"

"Na fuck that bitch, she will probably just give you a defy"
by Harley, Lights & Styles September 14, 2011