A phrase that can be said to a person who tries to blame another person for their action.
For Example, Mick says I want to go to the bar, I want to go to the bar to drink, Mack says no mate I don't want to be responsible for you. Mick says OK, I'm leaving you here, I don't care. Mack says don't be like that you don't understand and tries to explain the situation and wishes the topic never came up. Mack lectures Mick and tries to stop Mack going into the bar knowing he will get drunk but also not wanting to leave his friend. Mick is insistent gets drunks gets arrested or ends up vomiting and the next day blames everything on his good friend Mack. Mack says I see how it is