to predictions, never to test
if predictions are true.
Fear prevents a person
from being oneself, and never test
if predictions become reality. This prevents the brain from becoming calibrated with reality. Some
of our predictability comes
from people failing to be creative
and simply parroting behavior of others.
who always pays attention
to how he/she behaves, and don't let go of this prediction
of how others look
When focusing on what you predict others' opinions/reactions/views of you are, you will restrict yourself
and act worse than
you would otherwise.
How do we know anything
is to test
in the way of doing what you want. See how often your bad predictions were incorrect, and how they affect your life.
predictions reality by focusing on them. Let go of the prediction
's control over you and start controlling yourself
. Wake up, enjoy
the now, stop predicting.
Prediction phobia stops you from doing what you feel like: dancing, getting
to know strangers, not drinking beer at the bar, not laughing at jokes you don't think are funny, playing loud
music, talking loud
, singing, talking
to groups of people.
"You have been living in a dreamworld Neo. This is the world
as it exist today." -The Matrix
"You didn't try to hit on the girl when you had a chance?"
-"No, I didn't think it would work"
"Haha you let prediction phobia take control of you, you had your chance and you didn't even try."
-"No I don't, I play the lottery even though I know I won't win, but this is different."
"No I don't see your logic, your self-image isn't going
to be damaged. Risk rejection
or go home mad at yourself for not taking the chance?"
-"Wow thanks! I will start to ignore