1. Another name for someone who believes he is above all others.
2. An asshole, bastard, jerk.
3. Describes someone with selfish tendencies and need to be the center of attention.
5. A person who ignores those around him.
Lady: That guy is cute, but he's such a benj. I wouldn't date him.
Guy: Stop being a benj, and let me sleep on your couch while my place is being fumigated.