A respectful term for Big Sister. Orig. Urdu (Pakistan/India).
A male homosexual who is regarded with high esteem in the community of South Asian queers.
Popularized by a group of desihomoFOB
guys in Boston while referring to a local diva of international stature.
Did you see Aapa's dance at the Masala party? Her drag was so like 70s Bollywood. By the way, Aapa just left for World Social Forum by the way and when she comes back from Brazil, she is going to Pakistan and India via Dubai.
We watched "La Mala Educacion" and then went for Sushi at Gotan's. We dissed ABCDs
who think they are IT. Because it were WE homoFOBs who were IT. Then we sat around some bar table in the West Village and sang 70s songs by Noor Jehan and occasionally reminisced about the dialogue in movies like Sorraya Bhopali or Umrao Jaan. All in all, it was a very just a slice of my life full of homoFOBia.
Homosexual Fresh of the Boat. Usually refers to (although not limited to) Pakistani or Indian gays, lesbians, transgenders etc, who reside in USA but grew up in Pakistan, India. The term is endearingly used by progressive desi
homoFOBs to refer to eachother or themselves.
Coined by Ayaz
who is your run of the mill Pakistani Homosexual
in New York City while on vacation in Puerto Rico. See also HomoFOBia
Yeah, a few of us typical homfobs, - three Indians and three Pakistanis - went to Vieques for vacation, listened to ghazals in the car, praised the rain forests, cursed the mainland USA as often as we could, and yes, every day we condemned the US military. Indeed we drank every night too.