bam is a total jackass (hence the name of the damned show) he comes off as rather stupid, and he obviously isn't capable of doing anything different. anyone who thinks he is attractive should burn. he thinks he's valo/lusts after valo, and he needs to stop. he is bam. not valo. valo is GOD.
"your pretty face..", HIM's songs, the scarf, tattoo, the gloves, the hair, his name in Haggard.