the actual definition of gay is happy or merry, but it has progressed to become the moniker for homosexual, or loving someone who is the same gender as you. gay does NOT mean weird or stupid, that's just what retarded dumbass people say to get some people to like them.
the two good ways:
1. Let's have a gay old time!
2. My uncle is gay, but there isn't anything wrong with it
the bad way:
1.stop acting gay